The nice thing about watching foreign movies is that usually, they are
pretty decent. There are not many foreign films released, so there must
be some sort of weeding process. Show Me Love, a Swedish film from
Lukas Moodysson, is one of those good films. Wildly popular in its initial
release in Sweden, U.S. audiences can finally give it a look-see. Show
Me Love is a touching, romance story, infinitely better than the droves
of teen movies that are released like mating rabbits. It is a lesbian
romance, but that is almost beside the point. The emotions that Elin and
Agnes feel, love, anguish, and the alienation of high school are very
real.
The Swedish name of this film is Fucking Amal, after the town
where the story takes place. It is a small town apparently in the middle
of nowhere. Agnes (Rebecca Lilejeberg) and her family moved there one
and one half years ago. Rebecca is still considered an outsider. She has
no friends, and rumors abound at school that she is a lesbian. The only
person she speaks to is another outsider, a wheelchair bound classmate.
For her sixteenth birthday, her overbearing mother decides to throw a
party. Agnes has a crush on her classmate Elin (Alexandra Dahlstrom),
her polar opposite. She is popular, flashy, and part of the 'in' crowd.
She lives with her mother and sister Jessica (Erica Carlson) and all they
want to do is party and get drunk. The night of Agnes' party, no one shows
up, until Elin and Jessica appear at the door. All they want is wine,
they could care less about Agnes. As a cruel joke, Jessica dares Elin
to kiss Agnes. She does, and they take off. Elin is not a bad person at
heart, so she feels a lot of regret for her actions. She goes to apologize,
and Agnes and Elin end up talking all night, and kissing. The next day,
Elin promptly gets a boyfriend, crushing the feelings of Agnes. However,
Elin is still not happy. She has these new feelings that she doesn't know
how to deal with. The rest of the film deals with each of the girls and
how they deal with their emotions.
Unlike many of the teenybopper movies out today, the characters in Show
Me Love are not cliche. The teen stereotypes that seem to be the norm
in these movies are shattered here. This film does contain the outsider,
the popular girl, and the lesbian, but each character is freethinking
individual, whose decisions are not easily predicted. Moodysson shot the
film almost documentary style, with frequently grainy images, and a constantly
moving camera, zooming in on a person when he or she begins to speak.
This is an added sense of realism. The performances by Dahlstrom and Lilejeberg
are exemplary. The pain and isolation that Agnes feels is very apparent,
as is the dissatisfaction of Elin. She has a boyfriend now, but he is
so simple minded. Agnes spoke about her dreams and the future, while everyone
in her own crowd was more concerned with boys and fashion.
Another interesting, if not random aspect of this film is observing the
influence of American culture on Swedish teens. Posters of Leonardo DiCaprio
and Scream adorn the walls of these teenagers. The Backstreet Boys
are all the rage. And, since Amal is somewhat in the boonies, Foreigner
blares on the radio. So you can conclude that teens in Sweden are similar
to teens here. Moodysson crafted an intensely tender story that transcends
borders. Even the homosexual issue can be downplayed. This isn't necessarily
a movie about being a lesbian. It is more a movie about belonging. Everyone
wants a friend or someone to love them. The absence of it can shatter
your world, but if you do find someone, your whole world can change for
the better.
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