At the age of 31, Zaza's (Lior Ashkenazi, Electricity Man, Kanon)
parents believe he is too old to remain single. They are Georgians (the
republic, not the state) living in Israel, and they still retain many
of their cultural habits. They believe that in marriage, the man must
be older. All marriage is arranged, and they compromise with Zaza by giving
him veto power over their choices. Zaza frequently exercises his power
of veto in Late Marriage, Dover Koshashvili's (With Rules)
new movie about the generation gap and the struggle of members of the
second generation to overcome tradition.
Zaza wants to marry for love. Thus, he continually rebuffs the efforts
of his father Yasha (Moni Moshonov, Besame Mucho, The Shower)
and mother Lili (Lili Koshashvili, Dover's mother). The worst part is,
he has many desirable qualities; he is handsome, smart, and clever. The
other reason is that he is in love with Judith (Made in France,
Ben Gurion Airport). She is a divorcee and single mother, two things
that automatically disqualify as potential spousal material according
to his parents' wishes. Zaza keeps his relationship private and continues
to see Judith and reject the women his parents present to him, until his
parents find out about Judith.
Koshashvili has an unconventional sense of humor he uses to defuse many
volatile situations. Late Marriage is a movie about all the awkward
silences that happen in conversations. There are plenty of times where
nobody is sure what to say, and when somebody says something, it is clearly
the wrong thing to say. Zaza clearly is having trouble reconciling his
desires with those of his parents. When he's around them, he shuts down
emotionally. His relationship with Judith is the opposite. In an extended
scene of sex, Koshashvili shows how emotionally close these two people
actually are (although the scene frequently borders on the gratuitous).
It's a little disappointing where the Koshashvili takes the characters
and situations. He carefully creates tension and drama only to ruin it
in the denouement. Although the ending is valid given the circumstances,
it feels like Koshashvili sidesteps any deeper issues between Zaza and
his family. With the characters carrying so much emotional baggage, it
takes more than one climactic argument to fix things. Still, the performances
are good all around, and the issues presented transcend the Jewish-Georgian
culture. Late Marriage is about the bond between parents and children,
and the difficulties inherent when children want to assert their independence
and thus begin straining this bond.
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